Language is a behavior potentially under our control, and a powerful ring is the way to act on the world, and how the world affects us. And 'how to express our thoughts and feelings, and also influences our thoughts and feelings. Probably can not make sense without a thought, and that thought is framed in words - coming from inside our heads, or words of others.
Block physical force, language is how to get what we want to influence, motivate, inspire, forbid, gain sympathy or support, encourage, value or devalue, and do happen - in other words, as we move into the world and ourselves.
Have a word for something that allows us to "know" and gives us a sense of power over it. It allows us to know "it" from "something else", and choose strategies to cope.
Language is the power of "naming" and this is the power of the secret or the name of the Lord. Something must be very powerful to not have a name, and we must be very unpowerful not know, or not be able to use it. Arriving to say is, coming to know "who is driven from power.
It 's a great moment in life when a child learns the word "no." Instead of pushing it away, averting his eyes, scream, cry, or hit, can say "NO" and - at least sometimes - what the crime will go away.
This is the power.
The power of language.
And when we name our anger came from fear (instead of a mish mash or beat feelings or temples), then we can face it and move forward power. Anger, as they say, is a good way of knowing what we want, even if not a good way to get it.
Those of us who lived through the "gender revolution in the U.S. (in terms of" all men are created equal "and" [t] he ") knows the power of language and how it both influences and is influenced by feelings, attitudes and values.
You may also have experienced this, if you decided after the assertiveness training in the 70s, to quit using the word "but" and replace "and" in every instance. Maybe you took a whole year to stop thinking "but" automatically, but chances are you've noticed a difference in your thinking and behavior after it became aware of a habit, and changed.
LANGUAGE AND Katrina
Consider how you and others around you are talking about events surrounding Hurricane Katrina. What happened is this: Hurricane Katrina is the third most intense hurricane to make landall United States. The early morning of August 29. 2005, eyewalls touched by Katrina from New Orleans, Louisiana and landed in Bay St. Louis, Mississippi.
These are the facts. The rest, as for the reporting of each case may be, and is usually interpreted, has reportedly drawn up, commented, embellished, told lies, lied, exaggerated down-played, assigned emotional meaning, Given reviews value, and so on. It can also be "used for various purposes, depending on the reporting one - for sympathy, outrage, for money, to encourage action to discredit, to support, to criticize and blame, and any number of other purposes.
The words we use in reporting about the hurricane personally, as a nation and as a world, will be influential. Who said this language? The media? Leaders? You and me? The words used will shape your thinking, so pay attention and accept or reject, but recognize your ability to choose and be aware of or has what it takes in, and what you put out.
According to the Global Language Monitor (http://www.languagemonitor.com/), a fascinating website, this is the way it took place in global communications, to word / term of use:
Disaster is used more often. Then the Bible. (The Times of London "... a town of 6,800 corpses, where lie amid a scene of devastation of the Bible").
The next event is global warming. (Der Spiegel reported: "... the German Environment Minister Trittin Jrgen remains unshakable in his assertion that Hurricane Katrina is linked to global warming and the U.S. refusal to cut emissions.") So, in this order, is Hiroshima / nuclear destruction, disaster, holocaust, apocalypse and the end of the world.
How about these different terms? What are the characteristics? What have emotional connotations, that is, how do you react to them? How do you feel? What is "fact" and what is "descriptive"? As you sort through the data, you're discriminating because of the embellishment and comment? Are considering the possible prejudices of those who report?
They are the survivors of the hurricane displaced, refugees or survivors of the cyclone? What difference does that term is used? Consider your emotional reaction to each. Various terms are used to manipulate emotionally charged your reactions.
Why not take some time today
to apply this thinking / feeling today as a paradigm to talk and listen to those around you.
· E 'your choice of emotionally loaded words? Incendiary, for example ("Try moving once more television and you're grounded for a week.") Or depressing ("There's no point even talking about it. There's nothing you can do." )
· E 'passive? ("I'd sure like a new computer, but I'd never give me one.")
· It is intimidating, the other designed to scare and silence ("If I wanted your opinion I would ask first. Just stay out."
· It is the victim of language? ("This always happens to me because I am a star-sneech bellief?")
· E 'politically correct, aka neutral emotion and value judgments? Want it?
From your first smile like a child, and the first time pronounced "But but" we were learning how to work in the world with language. And the first time your mom says "good boy" to you when you ate your peas and you've done, you have been in production for the language. It 'a powerful tool. Use it wisely.